Or so the saying WENT

Who said Good Things Come In Threes?  I don’t know, do you?  I used to love that saying, three being my favorite number.  But recently I got to wondering how Good Things in 3s became Bad Things in 3s.  Haven’t you heard that one too?  Bad Things Come in 3s.  Bleh.  Let’s do away with that shall we?

See I noticed this:  G.O.O.D. equals 4 letters.  B.A.D. equals 3 letters.  Shouldn’t we change the rules?  Let’s start saying Good Things Come in 4s.  That way there will always be one more Good Thing than Bad Thing.

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And let’s talk about Bad Things for a minute.  Bad is not a place I have ventured on this blog.  I’m not going there, just lightly dancing around it.  Just trying to get some perspective.  Like there are Bad Things and there are Bummers.  Say, for instance, Graham’s two-year-old-IPOD-with-a-warranty-that-ended-in-July is toast.  It’s not a Bad Thing, it’s a Bummer.  But like all Bummers (and Bad Things), there is still something Good to be discovered.  It’s a Good Thing he has used it every single day, getting enjoyment from our investment.  It’s a Good Thing he can afford to buy another.  It may be toast, but it didn’t get engulfed in a California house fire.  It’s not an appliance he needs to sustain life.   And it’s so insignificant when you find out some terrible news about someone you love.   

Isn’t it interesting that we can find Good in the smallest of things if we set our focus to see it?  Have you noticed that Good attracts more Good?  And Bad attracts more Bad?  I wish I could find this article I read online to share with you.  It was about magnetism.  There was a study done where someone discovered you can actually measure magnetism within us.  And Good vibes, or whatever they are called, attracts more of same.  Think about that.  Want to change your path, your destiny, your attitude?  Be good, do good, see good.  Attract Good.

So four good things for today:

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1.  Join me in wishing my dear friend Lisa a Happy Birthday.

2.  I met a new friend.  He tagged me, but I don’t do tags.  Visit his new blog and his revamped site….and for sure look for the new Grungeboard demo here.  It’s a Good Thing. 

3.  Sam and I are off to music therapy class, presented by NJ Very Special Arts for families with Autism.  We are lucky to participate in a program like this.  I look around at the other kids in his class and feel so blessed. 

4.  I heard some Bad news recently, but I can filter through it and find some Good.  I feel Good that I was the one who got the call.  I got to be there for someone.  That is so Good.  I know I can ask you (yes YOU) to say prayers with me…..that Good will prevail.  I know that you don’t need the details, you’ll just send your positive vibes our way.

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EDIT:  Can’t stop at 4. 

5. Coffeemate Gingerbread creamer.  Swoooon.  See how many good little things you can find when you’re fending off bad stuff?

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6.  More Moo.  Laurie shares her cards, the kind we were talking about the other day.  *Note to self:  have some made!*  You DO have Laurie’s book don’t you?  If not, add it to your xmas wish list!

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7.  More ETSY love…..don’t you need one of these?  8" high, 1/2" thick!  More letter styles available.  From www.damboisedesigns.etsy.com

8.  And from www.pleasebloom.etsy.com , this terrific piece.

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And yes, I know THINGS don’t make up all that is Good in life.  I do believe the quote:  "The best things in life aren’t things", but sometimes things are just the Rx.  Besides, after shopping this week, at the mall and online, I’ve got half my xmas list taken care of!

Oh, and Graham’s new ipod?  I think he likes it better than his old one.  It has video!

Comments

21 responses to “Or so the saying WENT”

  1. Megan Avatar

    What a wonderful lesson and take on life – thankyou again for your everyday wisdom. It is indeed a valuable reminder of our blessings.
    “your worst day is someones else’s best dream” – I heard this once, and I am not sure from whom, but I likeit.
    Mx

  2. Randi Avatar

    Glad you could find some good in the not so good things…that magnetism theory is the basis for that book called “The Secret”. Very powerful stuff. More good in the world can only be a positive thing!

  3. Ursula Clamer Avatar

    HI Michelle, I agree with the ‘like attracting like’, and I love how good things should come in 4s. Sending the positive vibes your way. Ux

  4. Lisa Hoffman Avatar

    Hey Mix W!
    Thank you for the Birthday Shout Out, but more than THAT….the continuing good spirit that you embody every day. We are ALL lucky to know you/read your blog/ be in your orbit.
    lOve, Love and LOVE……
    Lisa H.

  5. Linda Warlyn Avatar
    Linda Warlyn

    What a whole bunch of wonderfulness in one post…thank you Michelle! You made my whole weekend! Sending big bright birthday wishes to lovely Lisa and positive thoughts and prayers for all good things for all people. Shine on, dear heart! xox
    ps loved that grungeboard video!

  6. hedwig Avatar

    He Michelle,
    this one was G.O.O.D. to read, despite the BAD things that sometimes happen to us! I think that when you are a positive person you can get something good from everything. AND EUHM, I don’t do tags either, bud denying Tim Holtzes tag… Okay, if you are very principall, I would set them aside for one time, ;-))))
    Hedwig

  7. Dawn Gold Avatar

    What a read, really made me sit up and take notice – Thank you for sharing your positivity and I will send wishes to your friend and prayers for your friend that needs them…would like to ask about the moos – when you get them do you have to have something printed on them first? just wondering cos I would like some lol and i thought if you had to have something printed on them then i would get me name etc so i could use the back/front to do art work on
    Oh my gosh have I really rambled on so much xxxx

  8. Maj Avatar
    Maj

    Michelle, I don’t do prayers, but I will send you and your friend in need all the positive thoughts I can.
    here is what one could do to B.A.D.: http://www.flickr.com/photos/robot/266712757/
    Love the “M”!

  9. Tia Avatar

    Great post…youre right about the “magnetism” thing…I rented “The Secret” from our local library, which is based on just that…I believe Dr. Wayne Dyer did a positive thinking show as well….making the glass “half full” instead of “half empty” is hard sometimes, but i think it makes all the difference in life.

  10. Chris Avatar

    I have been swamped all weekend, barely home, and sore all day today and catching up with unfinished business at the office, and now I come here and see this lovely.
    Thank you.

  11. Chris Avatar

    p.s. I always do prayers and am still praying.

  12. Chris Avatar

    I love my video iPod! It has served me well, and sometimes when I can’t sleep because I can’t seem to allow thoughts to move across my mind and out again without clinging to them, I turn it on at night and fall asleep to it, turned low, and just enough to lull me, then it goes dark all by itself as I snooze away.
    Yay for Graham!!

  13. gaby braun Avatar

    Yes! I totally agree with you. This is why I always try to make good things. Be good to other persons, and see the good, even in bad things, like an illness or an accident. This was we think is bad, has a good side too. Always. I’m sending you all my good energy!!!
    A store here in the neighborhood has a lot of cork plates. But it’s in Brazil!!!

  14. izabella Avatar

    wow I have been away tooooo long, oh so much to get caught up on your blog~
    love the HIM poster table, very kool..I want one 😉
    loved the photos of the show
    and the graveyard dirt…very interesting 😉
    girl you rock!!
    xo ~Bella

  15. Chris Avatar

    Gingerbread creamer?!
    I may drink it straight!

  16. Marlynn Avatar
    Marlynn

    I heard somewhere that it takes 4 positive people to counteract 3 negative people. So keep the negative people out of your life – if you can. If you can’t, make sure you have your 4 positive friends close by. Great post, Michelle.

  17. Marlynn Avatar
    Marlynn

    Michelle, I heard somewhere that it takes 4 positive people to counteract 3 negative people. So keep the negative people out of your life – if you can. If you can’t, make sure you have your 4 positive friends close by. Great post, Michelle.

  18. Paula Avatar

    I am so lucky to have found your blog! I always try to surround myself with positive people! On an ipod note, my son got an ipod nano last year for Christmas and after a couple of months it stopped working…wouldn’t even power on! My parents could not find the reciept and purchased him a new one. We then realized there is a reset button on the bottom. Now I too have an ipod nano…and it came complete with HIM songs!!! Alex’s “broken ipod”, my new ipod! Have a great day, and Happy belated birthday Lisa!

  19. carlene Avatar

    GOOD post! I had a BAD day today, bad Dr. appt., then was cruising blogs tonight and saw this post from you…now I feel better (GOOD!) & I will pass that on, etc, etc, et al…so it’s all GOOD!
    (p.s. you’re right, the best things in life aren’t things…but a little ‘retail therapy’ never hurt anyone, right? LOL!)

  20. Janine Avatar
    Janine

    Oh Michelle… your sure know how to make us all think…. G.O.O.D. things come in 4’s…. Visiting your site always makes me smile…
    Thinking positive definitely makes a difference, have put it to practice and am amazed and the outcome!
    Happy belated birthday to Lisa too…
    Thanks again Michelle… you rock!
    Jxo

  21. Kate Avatar
    Kate

    Michelle,
    I have been wondering about you guys. I miss you so much this semester. I just got a link to your website via my music therapy forum where they tagged your comment about VSA. What’s going on? I read the article about you guys in the paper – the one for Chicken Soup. I hope all is well.
    Kate

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