coming home….

Mwardsailingship

I am standing upon the seashore.

A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the

morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.

She is an object of beauty and strength.

I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of

white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

Then someone at my side says:  "There, she is gone!"

"Gone where?"

Gone from my sight.  That is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull and spar

as she was when she left my side and she is just as able

to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me, not her.

And just at that moment when someone says:

"There, she is gone!" there are other eyes

watching her coming,

and other voices ready to take up the glad shout:

"Here she comes!"

And that is dying.                                       
~Henry Van Dyke

  
    
  
  
  

My friend Lesley Jacobs shared this beautiful poem recently with a group of friends.  I love this perspective of death.  It’s a perfect illustration of entering heaven.  My friend Liz is now in there.  It was a sentimental journey this week.  Thanks to those of you who wrote your sweet words of comfort.

I’m home now and trying to catch up.  Kids are off school for a week and we have lots planned as Graham’s sister Sandra and her family have arrived from England.  I had hoped to plan some online specials for April since it is Autism Awareness month but I didn’t get it together.  The month is 30 days long so maybe I’ll come up with something.  In the meantime, tomorrow is the last day for the SixDegrees fundraising, and Ali is making us all proud with her efforts for Autism….last I checked it was over $25,000!!!

EDIT: she’s at $37,000 plus! Ends at midnight.

Have a good Spring Break, Easter, or Passover.

Comments

5 responses to “coming home….”

  1. Ursula Clamer Avatar

    That’s a really beautiful poem, thank you for sharing it with us. Ux

  2. meganpickwell Avatar

    What a moving poem, such wonderful words that offer much comfort.
    Megan

  3. Kristen Robinson Avatar

    This is a lovely piece, so moving and poignant! So glad you are home safely!
    XO
    Kristen

  4. Evelyn Avatar
    Evelyn

    Thank you for sharing that beautiful poem, I am sitting with tears in my eyes, this poem really does express how I feel about death and dying. I have copied it out. Isn’t it funny sometimes we just get the urge, being half a world away from family I got the urge to call my father (and made sure it was a time where it would just be him in the house) the day before he died (well I should say he passed away that night), I got to say I loved and missed him, something I wouldn’t normally do – I just had a feeling. These things are meant. Enjoy your visit with family and I do hope it goes better than mine did with my family recently.

  5. Gail Lindekugel Avatar
    Gail Lindekugel

    I love this poem, the beautiful soothing art with it is lovely too. You know my Levi’s story, our sweet friend Nick Snow (nicksnow.com) died just a year ago April 2 after a long battle with the same cancer that took Levi. Nick’s battle spanned 10 years and his death was a result of a worn body and a medical community that quit listening to him. Nick was 16. In trying to find the words that might convey something in my heart it occured to me that Levi’s absence is no longer a seperate thing from me, not my enemy any longer. That loss has sunk deeply into my bones and has become part of me, has shaped me and raised me,maybe more than me own dear mother. It is as much me as my eye color and and my toe nails.
    Deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear friend, may she reside there in your heart and remain there as a part of you.
    There’s a bit of magic in everything, and some loss to even things out. ~Lou Reed, “Magic and Loss”
    easter peace,
    Gail L

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